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            昨晚载我回学校的出租车司机突然问我：“北京好还是上海好？”在此之前，我只跟他说了一句话，他竟然在我身上找到了北京的痕迹。开出租车真是个能阅人无数的职业。他继而说“我觉得北京好，北京有山。”
            上海的春天来得更早一些，两周前到这里的时候，我觉得好像赚到了，因为躲过了北京冬天的小尾巴。其实北京的冬天也有动人的一面，我喜欢走在只有一半能晒到阳光的胡同里，呼吸着干冷的空气，身体就像一块电池，渐渐积蓄起力量。不过北京的冬天还是太嫌漫长，到了3月已经让人很不耐烦。我是个没见过世面的人，从念小学起就不曾离开北京超过10天。我有点吃惊，这次出差时日不短，但我心里并没有预想的那种牵挂。司机师傅以一种诗意的语气说起北京的山，而那对于我，只是一种淡淡的亲切感。
            
            这个月带的课是组织行为学，教授说，人是很难被改变的，要改变一个人的行为，需要21次的影响和强化。我想，是不是如果一个人让你伤心21次的话，你就能不爱他？
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    minjiewrote:
    在友人评论中看到你叫amber,无意中就点进来了，没想到是同校同级同乡，面貌也很亲切，是路上遇到会有记忆的人。
    首页上的文字浏览了一遍，还有所有的照片。真喜欢。干净、磊落、中肯，一点拖泥带水都没有。
    真高兴你叫amber,我现在身在它的产地，不定期就去老城里淘一淘~同住34A，我在5楼。（：
    3 days ago
    No namewrote:
    感情往往在等待与期待中渗透着对守望者的蚕食，其实一切只要一次yes or no就好
    Aug. 11
    No namewrote:
    那个是因人而异的吧。真的爱了，也许死不悔改。
    刚看了《曾有一个人，爱我如生命》。
    Mar. 24
    Amberwrote:
    dear all, 我很快就回去啦～
    Mar. 18
    竹友 松卿wrote:
    齐齐现在忙什么呢？好久没联系了
    Mar. 17
    刘琪 LQJanetwrote:
    欣在出差啊，看看外面的世界多好。
    Mar. 16
    Chen Liangwrote:
    姐姐你在上海呀？~~~~
    Mar. 16
    mike zhangwrote:
    找到了一个让你伤心21次的男人了吗？呵呵。干冷的北京空气，有时还是挺让人怀念的。只不过现在的北京，已迷漫着躁动的春天的气息了，容易让人犯错，反而不如在干冷中保险。
    Mar. 16
    Stanley Chanwrote:
    如果一个人能让你伤心21次，那证明你不是一般的爱他
    Mar. 16
    心 冷wrote:
    多半不灵。伤心和爱是联体的，其影响作用难以保持在同一个方向上。
    Mar. 15

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