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    December 13

    那些花儿

         那天到家的时候几近午夜，天空如青玉案一般冰凉，一轮满月朗照。二十N年前，我就降生在一样的月光里。每临生日，人大多会善感起来，有些年纪的，无不喟叹青春不敌岁月，我这样年幼时也见识过一呼百应的场面而到头来奔三而恨嫁的，更是唏嘘“晚景惨淡”，进而深刻反省曾经年少无知。
         近日看到ex-ex-BF一篇叫做“关于女朋友的畅想”的博文，文中调侃了我与他交往时的种种恶行，第一次从这个角度“看见自己”，自己都对自己生厌了。不想到文章结尾，他笔锋徒然一转，以“女人最烦你的时候,那就是最爱你的时候.要忍住,要忍住”高调收尾。我如蒙大赦，心里百转千回的——这应该算是一段未果的恋情最欢喜和宽慰人心的盖棺定论。我们通常在故事落幕很久以后，后知后觉，原来，那些爱过，也怨过，相互扶持过，也相互拆台过的ex－恋人们，已然以各种意想不到的方式渗透到我们生活的每个角落，甚至型塑了我们的青春。这个意义上，那些ex-恋人，特别是青春时代的恋人，是朋友，是伙伴，通常还是误人子弟的人生导师……
         北京今年入冬的第一场雪，Shaw和我在一家热气腾腾的小馆儿里温上一壶清酒，边喝边聊历任ex-恋人，口气轻盈得象在说别人的故事。入夜，上面说那位ex-ex-BF醉酒来电，半晌说了一句“活着真tmd没意思”。
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    Lydia pangwrote:
    亲爱的，n想你，每天抬头都能看到你的名字，所以每天都会想你n次。
    Feb. 14
    涛 朱wrote:
    以粗茶淡饭养养胃，用清新空气洗洗肺，让灿烂阳光晒晒背，找群朋友喝个小醉，像猫咪那样睡一睡.
    Jan. 3
    di niewrote:
    我就是EX.EX.
    昨日风景昨日花,
    几多谈婚论嫁?
    瞬时分飞天涯,
    还好,
    未成冤家.
    闲时,依旧可把家常话,
    无非蹉跎年华.
    道什么青春不敌岁月,难觅人家?
    正值芳华,秀美如昨,何愁婚嫁?,
    末了,你快乐所以我快乐.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
    Jan. 2
    tina liuwrote:
    宝贝新年快乐！
    Dec. 31
    混子wrote:
    你的文章。。。我觉得我还是闭嘴不说话才好。。。不知道说什么。。。更不想被人嘲笑
    Dec. 28
    Pacific Hewrote:
    mm文如其人，清新隽永。
    忘掉过去，不去想未来，简单才快乐。下面这句话颇有点旁观者的味道，我欣赏并渴望这种心态
    “以各种意想不到的方式渗透到我们生活的每个角落，甚至型塑了我们的青春”
    Dec. 26
    Stanley Chanwrote:
    申请转载~~
    Dec. 21
    雯雯 侯wrote:
    "活着真tmd没意思"所以"好死不如赖活着"吧!
    Dec. 17
    路璐 王wrote:
    特别是青春时代的恋人，是朋友，是伙伴，通常还是误人子弟的人生导师……
    nod～～
    Dec. 14
    gold kingwrote:
    有道理～～～
    Dec. 13
    tina liuwrote:
    过去了，就过去了～
    Dec. 13
    Cristalwrote:
    hug~~~
    Dec. 13
    mike zhangwrote:
    成年后，在生日里的感喟都是最真实也是最发自肺腑的。看来你和EXEXBF也曾轰轰烈烈过，还能在夜晚来电中说出那么精典的一句话，足以说明你的眼光很厉害！
    Dec. 13
    TOM LEEwrote:
    Do not worry too much and everyone will walk into the heaven of  God.

    Just enjoy your limited life and embrace what you like.

    I f  you now have the feeling of  "有些年纪的，无不喟叹青春不敌岁月", how about the person over 30?
    Dec. 13

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